This book has transformed my perspective on fostering genuine connections.

After purchasing ‘How to Win Friends and Influence People’ by Dale Carnegie years ago, I finally decided to dive into it. 

Initially uncertain about my motivation for buying the book, especially as an introvert with a small social circle, I felt a bit self-conscious when a friend hinted that my interest might signal a desire for more connections. 

This made me hesitant to read it, fearing I might come across as desperate. However, I couldn’t let the money I had spent go to waste, so, I finally read the book.  

And to my surprise, I found it remarkably insightful just a few chapters in.

Carnegie paints a picture of a society where genuine connection and empathy reign supreme. He emphasises the power of remembering names, acknowledging others’ needs, and taking an interest in the details of their lives, whether it’s their family, pets, or hobbies.

As I delved into the book, I couldn’t help but contrast Carnegie’s principles with the prevalent culture of self-centeredness and pursuit of personal fame dominating social media. 

In a world where everyone seems to crave attention and validation, Carnegie’s approach to building authentic relationships feels refreshing and essential. So far, the book has transformed my perspective on fostering genuine connections, and, as a journalist who works with people and tells their stories, I will apply a lot of Carnegie’s principles in my professional and personal life.